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Built on research and real family life, always with concrete advice you can take home.

Øyvind Østmo
Øyvind, dad and calm-tech nerd 🤓

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A drawn town where parents and children explore, learn, play and build things together, with proper breaks from the screen. In Norwegian for now.

Course: The Parent Guide

An essential course for parents who want to get screen time, apps, gaming and social media right. The goal is calmer, more confident kids.

Guide · Screen time

Screen time for kids, a complete guide

The numbers for every age and the steps that make the limits hold.

Last updated 28 July 2026 · 9 min
Questions & answers

How do I stop the nagging and whining about screens?

Be consistent. A child who learns that nagging never works gradually grows into smarter questions and better arguments.

Latest · Norwegian Media Authority

Design, not willpower, drives kids' screen time

The Norwegian Media Authority has read the usage logs from teenagers' own accounts: 15 to 20 short sessions a day, coming back every ten minutes. My take: the most important number is not 400 videos, it is the 29 per cent who themselves wish they logged off more often.

Latest
YouTube · 3 min
You can now switch YouTube Shorts off without losing the rest of YouTube
Parliament · 4 min
Norway's parliament said no to a 13-year age limit on buying a smartphone
Main topics
01Screen time→02First phone→03Social media and gaming→04Calmer technology→05Everyday life at home→06AI and kids→

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